Friendship Vs Love

I have always ask myself what is the meaning of love and friendship. Why can't these two things combined together? It's always hard to see these two things together. I understand that both have different meanings. In my life, I have been facing problems involving these two things and to tell you the truth, its really hard. What do you think when a guy who claimed that he is your bestfriend and said that he loves you so much as a friend, his precious, his don't know what else but then treating you as if you are his girlfriend. What does that really means?I just really can't understand it. You guys are friends, bestfriend for God sake but why did you treat it more than that?? Wouldn't it be love then?or what can it be called?I'm really confused.

My father always told me that actually there is no such thing as a guy and a girl being bestfriend. Either way, if its not the guy then it will be the girl who will fall in love eventually. Its really hard when you try not to cross that boundaries that you have made but without you realising it, you have actually cross it.

Friendship doesn't mean that you can control your friend, asking them to do your things or what not. Friendship is understanding, to be someone who is always there to look out for you especially when you are in trouble or just to be a listener. Well, that's my opinion about friendship. Different people have different opinions.

When you talk about love, what is it about love that makes people dare to sacrifice themselves and everything that they have. Love is not about just you alone, its about two heart combined and become one. Dare to do the impossible things and make it to be possible. If you still don't feel brave enough to sacrifice then why did you even think about wanting people to sacrifice for you just because of love.

I hate those type of guys who always hoped that girl will sacrifice everything for them. Especially when its involving sex and all. What is it about sex that have anything in common with love?? I really couldn't understand it. If you are thinking about sex then its not love at all..Its just lust. Just go and get a pig or what not if you can't stand with your sex drives. For God sake, women should be treated better. We're not your sex toys.

If you really love a girl, appreciate her more then you will get her respect and love. If you want girls to sacrifice for you then ask whether its worth it, even girls when you being ask like that than think about it. You want girl to work and gain money for you but what do you have to sacrifice for her?You know how to say 'sacrifice' and makes it looks like as if its very pure but then do you really know what is the real meaning of it.

Love and friendship...If you got problems about these two things then pray to God that everything will be okay. I do have problems with these two terms but what more can I say, either way you just have to face it.